La Vie Paysanne: 30 Years of French Country Cookery Tapa dura -

A lifelong cinema devotee, Cai had hoped to break into the film business as a scriptwriter, having studied the craft at university. After initial successes, selling a script and co-writing a BBC Radio Wales sit-com, the well ran unexpectedly dry. As a stop-gap that was only supposed to last six months, he took over the running of Paysanne in 2003, when his parents retired to the south of France. 'Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans' is a lyric that springs to mind, since he is still there today running it with the head chef.

Life as a restaurateur has enabled Cai to indulge in his love of food, often to marvellous excess. Over the past decade he has been feeding his writer hunger by penning articles about food and films for, among others, Cinema Retro magazine, Calibre Quarterly, HeyUGuys.com and BBC Good Food.

Cai is married to Melissa and they have two delightful children. He has yet to overcome his distaste for writing about himself in the third person.

These days the term 'Tomboy' can elicit howls of righteous indignation from some quarters, but that is exactly what Barbara was as a youngster. She was a Boadicea on the Lacrosse field and was doted upon by her father, Dr Ben Carr, an utterly lovely man. She had ponies from an early age, becoming a competitive and fearless rider. In her later teens she discovered Go Kart racing and with Ben as her mechanic and chauffeur, she became British Ladies Champion.

She left school as soon as she could, studied at Chester Art College and did a stint at the Cheshire Planning Department. She also became a veterinary assistant at Chester Zoo. All these skills proved vital later on, both in building work and on our farm. After all, when you've extracted a tooth from a bear, you're not going to be fazed by a few sheep, are you?

Barbara's mother presided over a burns unit rather than a kitchen (to steal a line from Bill Bryson) so becoming a good cook was a simple necessity but she discovered a natural talent which enabled her to take over a kitchen at our pub, The Goat and later Paysanne, where she stepped it up a gear. Supposedly retired in France now, she has still never had a cookery lesson.

Born in North Wales, Bob spent his childhood in Llangollen where he miraculously qualified for grammar school at Chester. He was more interested in playing the double bass in jazz clubs than in learning anything and embarked on a series of dead-end jobs before marrying Barbara in 1968. With her help and support he became an enthusiastic restorer of old rural properties, notably the hill farm near Ruthin where sons Cai and Tobi were born and raised. Bob and Barbara then bought the derelict Goat back from the dead, before opening Paysanne in 1988.

Bob never stopped playing double bass and throughout the 1970s and early '80s, he played with The Merseysippi Jazz Band, doing four tours in California and recording three albums. He was also a thuggish rugby forward at local club level, whose less than mesmeric record of three tries in twelve years speaks for itself.

In 2003, Bob and Barbara moved to the French Midi region where he still plays with buildings, eats and drinks too much.